Thinking about sex.

Tuesday 27th October 2009

Over the weekend I was talking with a bookseller friend of mine, who was telling me a customer had come in to return a book by A M Homes. He said he never would have bought it if he’d known she was a woman. Nice.

One of the questions I get asked a lot about my novel, is how come you write so convincingly as a man? I feel like sometimes the answer they want is that I have lived as a man for a period of my life. 

In New York recently a man asked Is it the sort of book that I would like, or is it a girly book?

In Melbourne on a panel of women who have written as male characters, we were asked What made you write about men rather than writing Chick-Lit?

I’d like to know why writing about a different country from the one you live in, or as an animal, or a ghost, as God, the wind or whatever, is not as surprising as writing in a different sex. Or is it just when women write as men? I can think of plenty of men who write as women and no one seems to lift an eyebrow. I’m not complaining – I’ll take all the attention I can get – but why the big deal?

Any suggestions of books written in the opposite sex?

4   comments

  1. Evie Wyld says:

    From Chris Cleave’s website:

    “Why does a man like you choose to write from the point of view of a female?”

    Read the whole thing here:
    http://www.chriscleave.com/main/?p=398

  2. Peter Carter says:

    I’m sure there’s loads of books, but do you remember the song ‘I Could Never Be Your Woman’ by White Town. There was something of a big deal about that being written from a woman’s POV, while carrying a male vocal.

    Another vaguely related fact: I remember hearing a while ago that when playing computer games, (if given the option) roughly 50% of men choose to play female characters, while less than ten percent of women choose to play as men. I’m not sure what that means exactly, but I thought it might be interesting brain fodder for you.

  3. Jamie Coleman says:

    I used to enjoy being the female character on Golden Axe.

    But I also liked being the dwarf.

    I didn’t like the boring average-to-tall man.

    Someone should write a novelization of Golden Axe. I was friends with someone just because they had it.

  4. Indira says:

    I’m too am a bookseller and a while ago an old fellow was just about to pay for an M.J. Hyland book, until it was somehow revealed that she was a she… at which point, he wrinkled his face in shock/horror/whatever, put the book down and stormed off.

    Great.

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